How to be a Great Parent

How to be a Great Parent

“How to be a Great Parent”

Proverbs 22:6

1. Great parents realize they are training their kids.

  • Training by default
  • Training on purpose
  • Training in God’s grace

2. Great parents prioritize being students of their kids.

  • Learn their “way”: tendencies, patterns, personality

3. Great parents customize the training of their kids.

  • Different stages require different skills

4. Great parents optimize the stages of their kids.

  • Nurturing Trainer (0-1) Nurture them to trust.
  • Directive Trainer (1-5) Teach them to obey.
  • Encouraging Trainer (5-12) Encourage them to learn.
  • Supportive Coach (12-17) Release them to decide.
  • Caring Consultant (18+) Help them to discern.

5. Great parents recognize they need God’s help to train their kids.

  • Great parents pray for their kids.

LifeGroup Questions: Applying the Teaching to Our Lives

  1. Do you have any great stories of either your parenting exploits or those of your parents? Share them with your group.
  2. In what ways have you tried to echo your parents’ way of parenting and in what ways have you tried to parent differently?
  3. Look back on your childhood; did your parents customize their parenting based on stages in your life? Explain.
  4. What happens if parents do not intentionalize their training of their kids?
  5. Proverbs 22:6 is a proverb, not a promise, a generalized observation not a guaranteed outcome. What difference does it make?
  6. What happens if you try to parent a 13 year old like a 3 year old? Or vice versa?
  7. Looking at the 5 stages of parenting in point 4, how is our parenting of our kids similar to God’s parenting of us?

Core CHRISTlike Characteristic: Relates with Other-Centered Love/Loving People

 

 

 

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